Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Got to got to got to

I've GOT to write down some of the cute things Ben is saying and doing lately. I was telling Michael yesterday that I should really keep the camcorder trained on him all the time. I just can't keep ahead of the cute!
    • He's saying "yes, please!" and "thank you" pretty consistently now for most things he asks for and gets. Sometimes he says it on his own and doesn't have to be reminded! This morning I coughed and he said "bless you"! Manners on a toddler = dying of cuteness
    • He's finally developed an ensemble of stuffed animals that he needs to sleep with, consisting of Froggie, Monkey, T'Bear (teddy bear) and Duckie. He will do a mental tally when he's put in bed at night and ask for anyone who's missing with a very sad, suspicious tone. One time Michael tried to tell him we didn't know where Monkey was, and he shook his head and made a low, disappointed sound. Sometimes when he is put in bed he will say, "All done rocking?" and if told yes, will say, "T'bear needs rocking."
    • The other day after breakfast he asked for "cake AND pie?" When I told him we didn't have either one, he said, "Go buy some?"
    • When I ask if he loves me, he'll say, "I love Mommy AND Daddy AND Grandma AND Grandpa." He calls both Grandmas the same thing, so we assume he means both. :)
    • Though he didn't say much to them while they were here (and they were here for just an hour or so), he was really intrigued with Michael's friends Kevin and Josh. He loves to identify them in photos and speculate about what they're doing.
    • As you can probably tell, he likes the word "AND" and tries to use it to his advantage. For example: "Would you like a banana, Ben?" "A banana AND juice? OK!"
    • His grandparents are on his mind often now, and he constantly asks about them and when he'll see them again. Though he asks to talk to them on the phone and loves to listen to them, he doesn't say much once the phone is passed to him.
    • He's known his numbers and counting order for a while now, but is just now seeming to enjoy just counting for its own sake, without looking at the numbers, too. For some reason, he starts to whisper when he gets to the teens.
    • He helpfully reminds me that we need to go shopping soon, or clean up soon, and points out trash I should pick up.
    • He still loves Sesame Street best of all, but he doesn't like the Elmo part. When it gets to Elmo's World, he usually asks if he can watch "Sabat" (I don't know why he calls it that) again ... he seems to think the Elmo part is a different show. Privately I kind of agree with him ... I like old school Sesame Street! I've tried to expose him to a few other good children's shows, including "Word World" (which I thought he'd love because it's all about letters). The only one he really wants to watch is Sesame Street, but he'll condescend to watch Curious George.
    • He LOVES his They Might Be Giants children's DVDs (Here Come the ABCs and Here Come the 123s). He might actually like them more than Sesame Street. He asks for them by asking for ABCs or 123s.
    • His favorite restaurant is Chipotle. He loves beans and rice, guacamole, salsa, barbacoa and carnitas. He asks for "chips and guac" and doesn't want any type of chip unless he can have salsa too (which he calls "sauce.") Sometimes he will eat the salsa by itself! He also LOVES cherry tomatoes (which he calls mayos) and broccoli. He will regularly ask for more of these vegetables instead of his usual fruit dessert.
    • Though still basically cautious, he's getting a lot more adventurous at the playground, and recently climbed the fake rock wall at our local park.
    • He's had several successful potty chair incidents, but we are still in diapers and not really training hard-core. He likes to play with his Legos or his clock while sitting on the chair. He often tells me before he needs to poop.
    • He asks for hugs sometimes when he doesn't like the way something is going. Often he kind of yells it: "Hug! Hug!" and then he wants to hug endlessly instead of getting into his highchair, or whatever he doesn't want to do. I like this much better than the screaming he was doing for a few weeks when he didn't want to do something. When we put him in his crib at night, he says, "Big hug?" in a very quiet, very sad voice.
This is the "rock wall" he climbed as we watched in terror:


Did somebody say my name?


Swinging


He seems to be the only one concerned that the animals' heads and bodies match.


The big slide!

Friday, April 10, 2009

Ben's 2-Year Well Baby Visit

Poor Benny had THREE shots and a finger prick (to test for lead) yesterday! Otherwise the visit was fine, which surprised me since we had to wake him up in the middle of his nap to leave (poor planning on Mom's part). I was glad Daddy came too just in case he was a complete crank (which happens more often than it used to!).

Stats:

Weight: 29.8 (70th percentile)
Height: 36 inches (85th percentile)

He's three feet tall, so if you go by the "double the height at 2" thing he'd be 6 feet as an adult. Michael thinks he'll be taller, though, because he shot up five more inches after he turned 18.

We had to fill out an "Ages and Stages" questionnaire for this visit, as we do periodically. He was doing all the stuff on the questionnaire except jumping! He tries to imitate us jumping, but he doesn't really get any "air" between himself and the ground; he just kind of nudges forward. I guess we need to go to bounce houses and trampolines and stuff more!

The doctor recommended Stress-Free Potty Training as a guide for getting started. Apparently you take a quiz to determine what approach would work best for your child and then only read those chapters. I've been totally lazy about getting started with this even though he was telling me when he had pooped for a while, so I need to get on this, I guess. He also recommended Zyrtec for him since he said his nose was swollen and it looked like allergies. Both Michael and I have them, too.

He was behind on a couple of vaccinations since there was a shortage on one of them last time, and we had split up the MMR into three parts and still needed mumps. They went ahead and gave him the full MMR because Merck no longer does those separately. He was really good during the shots. He just cried for a minute and then very easily got distracted when I pointed out his orange bandaid. He hated the finger prick and was crying quietly and saying "no more" while she did it. :(

I had mixed feelings about the fact that I'm the same age as Ben's doctor. On one hand, I was a little relieved because I actually thought he was much younger (his freckles threw me!). On the other, despite my total lack of interest in becoming a doctor, it still sometimes depresses me that other people my age have taken their education so much farther than me. But I've always been really glad he's Ben's doctor. He's really progressive but very funny and laid-back.

Here's a picture of Dr. Denison with some random baby:



And here's Ben yesterday. We were in the "Bears" room:



We asked him what he thought about our main behavioral question about Ben, which is why he sometimes seems to get upset when he's reciting letters and numbers or otherwise labeling things. We never drill him on any of this stuff, he totally seeks it out. But sometimes he'll be in the middle of it and seem to get upset. We wondered if it was our reaction. We are enthusiastic, but we try not to take it over the top. Then I thought maybe he wanted more information rather than just us agreeing that he had labeled something correctly. The doctor said he is probably really interested in continuing, but his short attention span is making him feel conflicted. He said he is probably also anxious to please. This made me sad and proud at the same time. :(

He doesn't need to see Ben again until he's three, and then he'll have a big boy exam where they take his blood pressure, etc. Ugh, I can't believe how big he's getting!

Monday, March 30, 2009

ABCs: cuter than ever

Have you ever heard anyone recite their ABCs more adorably?

Monday, March 23, 2009

Ben's birthday party

Here are just a few choice pictures from Ben's birthday party (and one crazy video). Two is much more fun than one!

The classic bow on the head routine:


With Grandma C:


New trike!


Note crazy, ultra-stainy ice cream (it's Rainbow Cream flavor from TCBY):


The W cake!


Grandpa with Ben:

Monday, March 16, 2009

What happens when you skip a nap

This is several months old. Poor Benny! Such annoying parents. It was too cute and we couldn't help ourselves.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Ben-isms

We had Ben's 2nd birthday party this last weekend, and I've been too busy to post pictures, so for now I'll post the quiz we had for guests at the party. It lists Ben's unique pronunciations of words, and you're supposed to guess what you think he might be saying. Feel free to take a crack at it; if you do as well as my mom did, I'll send you the same prize I gave her!

Friday, February 27, 2009

Happy Birthday, Ben!

I can't believe my little boy is walking around making the peace sign and saying "Two on my birfday!" This is so different from last year I can hardly process the difference. This year has been so much fun! Now I have a little boy who yells "OCTAGON!" when we pass a stop sign, requests hugs and kisses, and can put on his own mismatched socks and shoes! I can only imagine what he will be doing next year.

Happy Birthday to my little guy!